Posts made in February, 2010

The Anti-Reality Show

Posted by on Feb 23, 2010 in These Days | 4 comments

Yesterday I watched the years from 1952 -1976 speed by in roughly two hours. Until a month ago, these were the missing years among reels of 16 MM movie film, finally unearthed in a wooden wine crate on the back of a closet shelf in my parents’ old apartment. I had often wondered where those years had gone, both literally and figuratively. You can find almost anything in New York City, and sure enough, there is a company on West 36th Street that will, for quite the price, transfer old movies to DVD in less than 72 hours and with amazing clarity. The past weekend began with a trip to West...

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Hollywood Beach: Running Away With Me

Posted by on Feb 17, 2010 in These Days | 4 comments

When I was a child, our family spent a lot of time in Hollywood Beach, FL. My grandparents had a small ranch house about a half block from the beach with a detached garage that they converted into a guest house. The main house had a television recessed into a white brick wall and a gas fireplace that burst into blues and yellows at the flick of a switch. I remember curling up beside my mother as she read aloud to me from The Reader’s Digest – Humor in Uniform and Life in These United States – many of the jokes needing explanation, but her laughter was infectious. The scent of her...

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The Dum Dum Di Dumming Down of the Bride

Posted by on Feb 2, 2010 in These Days | 6 comments

My mother had two opportunities to be a mother of the bride – both with me. The first go-round, she mailed a Calvin Klein sheath in brown paper wrapping to my then home in Miami. In my 22-year-old bride-to-be’s mind, I had no questions nor any notions that brides and mothers typically shared what my mother called “hoopla” surrounding a wedding. I took in the dress for minor alterations, and that was what I wore. The second time around, there was no doubt in my mind that I would wear the same gown that Goldie Hawn wore in Private Benjamin. I went with my mother to the designer on...

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